Hullus perekonnas ja inimeses endas. Vanade inimeste kõnepruugis nimetatakse seda "skisofreeniline olukord". Kooskõla puudub. Üks käsi teeb üht, teine teist. Hävitad, ent tahad head jne.
Õnn suhetes. Õnn tuleb siis, kui armastad KÕIKI mehi. Kui armastad KÕIKi naisi samaaegselt. Kõiki olendeid, samal ajal. Siis ei ole nii, et oled kallimaga koos ning mõtetes välgatab vihkamise objekt, nii et kogu su keha on vihkamisest kange. Armastada jäägitult. Ükskõik, mis või kes ilmub Teie vaimusilma.
Kellele seda vaja on? Ilmselgelt inimesele endale, kui ta soovib normaalset seksuaalelu. Või siis - ütleme teise sõnaga - normaalset spirituaalset elu - normaalseid emotsionaalseid kogemusi.
Kõik haigused on nakkushaigused. Ei ole miskit nakkavamat, kui on ärevus. Laskem partneritel end mõjutada. Seepärast ongi spirituaalsus väga mõistlik valik. Sul on võimalus nakatada teisi enda rahuga. Ka spirituaalsus on äärmiselt nakkav. Rõõm ja naer. Ja haigutused. Seda võib youtubest järgi kontrollida. Kui nakkav!
Meil kõigil on üks elu. Kõikidele tähelepanu ei jagu. Seetõttu on mõistlik enda käitumine piiritleda - seada endale piirid. On piiratud arv isikuid, kellega läheme luurele. On vaid üks seltskond, kellega saame olla peol ühel õhtul. Elukaaslasi, sõpru, lapsi ja sugulasi ei saa olla lõputult.
Ent armastus saab olla piiramatu ja sügav. Seetõttu just on mõitlik pühenduda vähemale, et kasvatada eneses sügavust. Seepärast seame endale piirid.
Millal on suhted õnnetud? Siis, kui su kaaslane harrastab dialismi ja ta ei lase end nakatada armastusega... See põhjus, kas armastus su sees on nakkav ja ülevoolav, on ikka vaid üksnes sinus.
Kui sinus aga ei ole veel oskusi armastada jäägitult, pead seda veel treenima. Selleks pead leidma endale sobiva treeningkeskkona, toetava õhkkonna. Kus teised näitavad ette, kuidas nemad armastavad. Ja siis sa õpid ka.
Olgu öeldud, et ka puud ja loodus oskab armastada. Vahel parim õpetaja ongi loodus. Vaatan puud ja ta näib täielikult heatahtlik. Nagu ta on. Nii ka mina saan sellega hakkama. Tingimused on head.
(Selles videos on väga kurb olukord)
(Elurõõmsam, realistlikum olukord)
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ReplyDeleteRooside joovastav hurm, liilia süütus ja sarm
ma ei tea milleks kingid neid mul
vaasis on längus mimoos tulbid on langenud koost
mõtlen sulle kuid süda on külm
mõtlen sulle kuid süda on külm
Ref:
Armastab ei armasta on karikakar selleks ju loodud
armastab ei armasta ta õie lehte saatus on kootud
mu lumevärvi õis su hoolde annan südame ma
oleks hea kui valged õied vastaksid jaa
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Ütle kuis kasvada võid liival mu saatuslik õis
on see saadik mu ulmade puult
praegu ei aimagi veel kellele loodab mu meel
ainult tunne on ärevalt suur
ainult tunne on ärevalt suur
Ref:
Yeah, yeah...
ReplyDeleteIf I didn't have you
Yeah
If I didn't have you to hold me tight
(If I didn't have you)
If I didn't have you to lie with at night
(When I'm feeling blue)
If I didn't have you to share my sighs
(Share my sighs)
And to kiss me and dry my tears when I cry
Well I
Really think that I would
Have somebody else
(If I didn't have you)
If I didn't have you
Someone else would do
Your love is one in a million
(One in a million)
You couldn't buy it at any price
(Can't buy love)
But of the nine-point-nine-nine-nine-hundred-thousand other possible loves
Statistically, some of them would be equally nice
(Equally nice)
Or maybe not as nice but, say, smarter than you
Or dumber but better at sport or... fucking... tracing?
I'm just saying
I really think that I would
Probably
Have somebody else
(If I didn't have you)
If I didn't have you someone else would do
(Someone else would surely do)
If I were a rich man
Fiddle diddle diddle diddle diddle diddle diddle dee
I guess I would be with a surgeon or a model
Or a rellie of the royals or a Kennedy
Or a nymphomaniacal exhibitionist heiress
To a large chain of hotels
If I were a rich man, maybe I would fiddle
Fiddle diddle diddle with the rich man girls
I'm not saying that I'd not love you
If I was wealthy or handsome
But realistically, there's lots of fish in the sea
And if I had a different rod, I would conceivably land some
Even though I am fiscally consistently pitiable
And considerably less 'Brad Pitt' than 'Brad pitiful'
Am I really so poor and ugly that you think
Only you could possibly love me?
And I
Really think that I would
Probably
Have somebody else
(If I didn't have you)
If I didn't have you someone else would do
(Someone else would surely do)
Look, I'm not undervaluing what we've got when I say
That, given the role chaos inevitably plays
In the inherently flawed notion of fate
It's abstruse to deduce that I found my soulmate
At the age of 17
It's just mathematically unlikely that at a university in Perth
I happened to stumble on the one girl on Earth
Specifically designed for me
And if I may conjecture a further objection
Love is nothing to do with destined perfection
The connection is strengthened
The affection simply grows over time
Like a flower
Or a mushroom
Or a guinea pig
Or a vine
Or a sponge
Or bigotry
...or a banana
And love is made more powerful
By the ongoing drama of shared experience
And synergy, and symbiotic empathy, or something
So I trust it would go without saying
That I would feel really very sad
If tomorrow you were to fall off something high
Or catch something bad
But I'm just saying
I don't think you're special
I mean, I think you're special
But, you fall within a bell curve
I mean, I'm just saying I
Really think that I would
Probably
Have somebody else
I think you are unique and beautiful
You make me happy just by being around
(Just being around)
But objectively you would have to agree
That baby when I found you
Options were relatively thin on the ground
(Thin on the ground)
You're lovely but there must be girls as lovely as you
Or maybe more open to spanking, or table tennis...
I'm just saying
That I think that I would
Probably
Have somebody else
I mean I reckon it's pretty likely that if for example
My first girlfriend, Jackie, hadn't dumped me
After I kissed Winston's ex-girlfriend Neah
At Steph's party back in 1993
Enough variables would probably have been altered
By the absence of that event
To have meant the advent
Of a tangential narrative in which we don't meet
Which is to say there exists a theoretical
Hypothetical parallel life
Where what is is not as it is
And I am not your husband and you are not my wife
And I am a stuntman living in LA
Married to a small blonde Portuguese skier
Who when she's not training
Does abstract painting
Practises yoga
And brews her own beer
And really likes making home movies
And suffers neck down alopecia
But with all my heart and all my mind
ReplyDeleteI know one thing is true
I have just one life and just one love
And my love, that love is you
And if it wasn't for you
Darling, you
I really think that I would
Possibly
Have somebody else
If I didn't have you
If I didn't have you
Someone else would do
Someone else would surely do